I love my spouse but we argue constantly. If I could change just a few things about my partner, we'd be fine. I don't know why we're not happy maybe I'd try. I'm Lisa Angelettie - a relationship expert founder of the #1 Advice Counseling site on the web- www.GirlShrink.com If you checked any of the statements above, I think I know how you are feeling right now. Like so many couples dealing with the everyday stresses of life, you are in love but you can see that your relationship is headed in a downward spiral-perhaps even in big trouble. It may even be splitsville for you soon if something doesn't give, right? But if you're like most people, solving what probably is layers upon layers of "stuff" in the relationship - is not easy! Yes, I'm sure now that I know what you're going through. Because while I am a psychotherapist and life coach who works with couples like this everyday, I know first hand how it is to be in the middle of a relationship crisis. I mean haven't we all been there? I just wish that when I was crying every night over my man and our relationship, which I just knew was kaput, that I had someone to give me some direction on how to pick myself up and put things back together again. I was just so use to being "the victim". Poor ole' Lisa:) Time and time again, we all sabotage our relationships. E...